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31/31 days of honest: the end (and beginning)

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I have watched this video by Ann Voskamp–several times.

This 22 minute video of a new DVD series sums up where I am right now–with my 31 days, with my blog, and with my life.

I want to take my faith to the next level, I want to open my hands fully to the heavens and catch grace, love, peace and feel joy–in every moment of my life.

I won’t lie about my weight.

I will embrace my heartache.

I want memories not perfection.

I will find my sisterhood.

I will try to understand my limits.

I will try not to yell at my kids to get in the car (or at other times).

I want to clear out all the extra stuff that does not add value to my life and that does not assist me in living an intentional life.

I have learned so much about myself in the past 31 days of honesty–I have referred to it as my basement therapy–my intention was to clear out the physical clutter in my basement–what happened is that I let go of old; pain, dreams, heartache, and a huge box of what ifs, could have’s and might’s.

Be Blessed today.

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Day 4/31: Honesty, Authenticity and Trust

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Day 1, Day2, Day3 (a series to write for 31 days–my topic is honesty)

Day 4:  Let’s be honest–kids toys!

I had 4 kids in 5 years.  My once tidy house exploded and turned into a mini Toys R Us almost overnight.  I’m a thrift store shopper so I bought clothes and toys and even the most beautiful crib . . . all at thrift stores–since I was getting such a great deal on stuff I bought more than what I needed AND THAT WAS BEFORE THE BABY WAS BORN.

Then I wanted my kid to be a genius so I bought every baby Einstien toy, CD, DVD, flash card . . . out there.  Then came Tonka trucks and Bob the Builder–we have almost every Bob toy (and bedding/plates/cups . . . )–still!

Then my next child was a baby girl–the house exploded in pink and dolls!  I am forever grateful for each and every toy and piece of clothing that my kids have been given but it became more than too much.  Did I mention Care Bears–I’m pretty sure we had every single one . . .

where is that lego Mom?–you know the grey one that had a thingy off the side–I NEED it so the winds will move on my speeder.

My #3 and #4 have not had the volume of toys and clothes–they just don’t need it.  But we have managed to add Pet Shop and millions of more legos and duplos.

lego table–some days I really want this space! but for now they spend hours creating . . .

But still we have a playroom full of toys and closets that were overflowing–I purged the kids closets first and now they have 7 outfits winter, 7 outfits summer and a couple of swim suits.  That is all.

Duplos and Star Wars guys–you can’t buy this anywhere–only a little boy could make this.

So now that I have admitted that we have too much stuff and I want to make a change–how do I do that?

I need to say no.  I need to say no to cloths for me, food for me and toys for the kids.  It is so hard!

Christmas is coming and I do not want to get the kids plastic toys–last year I did a great job of getting them what they need–a new backpack, a electric toothbrush, I made knitted gloves and headbands.  This year I want to keep Christmas simple.  I have been “shopping” in the basement for things that we already have.

Duplos will always be everyones favorite! They can turn into anything.

It must start with me–I need to be able to say no to myself–and mean it and hold myself responsible then I can say no to them.  Because it really isn’t about the toys is it?  It is about setting boundaries and limitations.

I have identified the problem but I do not yet have a workable solution.  I welcome your loving recommendations.  I feel like if I had a scripture verse as a mantra for saying no that might help.  I think of St. Augustine “our hearts are restless until they rest in you” but that doesn’t quite work. . . I do feel restless.

I just want to say thank you for all of you who are following my 31 days of honesty and supporting not only me but all who read your comments.  I embrace the encouragement and my heart sings to have so many women (and men) being so positive in helping each other.

Thank you.

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31 days of Honesty, Authenticity and Truth Day 2

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Welcome to 31 days –the idea comes from the Nester who challenges bloggers to write each day for the month of October.

The idea of this project seemed very big to me–I had already written my post, let’s be honest, I’m fat, and published it before I discovered the 31 days challenge.   Maybe it was divine intervention?  so I have decided to write this month about honesty/truthfulness/authenticity.  We will see where this idea leads . . .

On Tuesday’s I write a Top Ten List and post with Angie at Many Little Blessings–I enjoy the top ten concept, yet needed to keep it on topic of my 31 days . . . (not sure what I’m going to do for Ultimate Recipe Swap on Thursday:-)

What I’m scared of:

  1. I’m scared of my kids dying.
  2. Not being loved.
  3. Water that I can’t see the bottom of–like water you might swim in or falling into a well.
  4. Growing old.
  5. Never finding my purpose.
  6. The amount of stuff that I have . . . the accumulation.
  7. Being homeless.
  8. My impatience or temper that has come with being menopausal–I’ve not felt this way since my youth.
  9. Not being heard–not the same as #2 . . .
  10. That I’m not a good mom–that is my biggest fear!

As this 31 days of HAT (Honesty, Authenticity, and Truth) continue I will be writing about all of the above topics.

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Be Blessed.

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